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Since its only right

Unread postby RagingLeprechuan » Thu Jul 24, 2003 10:51 pm

Well do to the recent post asking what guys like in women, I'm gonna go ahead and ask women what they like in guys. <p>When we drink, we get drunk.
When we get drunk, we fall asleep.
When we fall asleep we commit no sin.
When we commit no sin, we go to heaven.
So, let's all get drunk, and go to heaven! - Old Irish Toast</p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby SALSAlys » Thu Jul 24, 2003 10:59 pm

*laugh* I was wondering when somebody was going to ask THAT question as well.

So I might as well answer this. ^_^

Personality-wise: Pretty much modify all the stuff I said in the thread about what girls are attractive, and put it here. Or I can restate a lot of it here.

Someone who is comfortable with their body; not necessarily a jock, but at ease with themself. Sense of fun is also a must, and... I'm too lazy to really add right now. Oh welp.

Physically, I'll admit I like the guys who look 'cut'; trim, athletic, not overly bulked up. I mean, how are you supposed to hug that? People who are padded are different, as they remind me of nice big teddybears. And I'm a sucker for long hair. So sue me.


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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby RagingLeprechuan » Thu Jul 24, 2003 11:23 pm

Also I'm wondering what you ladies would say to a guy standing 6'4, with a sturdy frame n' build(e.i. if you punched him in the stomach you'd hurt yer hand but has no visible six-pack). Blue-green eyes, dark blonde hair, and a fashionably well placed goatee? Oh and has a wide open mind when it came to sex. Also has a high pain tolerance. <p>When we drink, we get drunk.
When we get drunk, we fall asleep.
When we fall asleep we commit no sin.
When we commit no sin, we go to heaven.
So, let's all get drunk, and go to heaven! - Old Irish Toast</p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby pd Rydia » Thu Jul 24, 2003 11:34 pm

Is this a discussion, or a personal ad?


On to the discussion at hand...personality is everything. You can be drop-dead gorgeous and it won't affect me one whit until/unless I find out you have an attractive personality.

What determines an attractive personality? Kindness, humor, understanding, and intelligence, in that order. For a relationship, the ability and desire to work out problems, and the ability to both give and receive emotional support, are must-haves.

Physical attractiveness is but icing on the cake, HOWEVER, well-groomed appearance is a must; slobbishness is a major turnoff. <p>
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Deeum » Thu Jul 24, 2003 11:34 pm

un RL.. please tell me you didn't just make this thread to pick some chicks... -_-;

Also.. What do i look for in a man?

Well first off.. said person would be understanding in the fact I like Yaoi/yuri/hentai/porn. Also doesn't mind if I ALSO think other females to be attractive.
I look for a guy that is willing to like what I like. Willing to love me for who I am, and not what I seem. someone who doesn't care if I sometimes get VERY jealous.
Also I want someone who will always want to make me feel better. Hug me when I'm sad (sap). Someone who doesn't mine that I'm sometimes VERY vulger. sometimes i make REALLY nasty comments and jokes.
Looks.. blah I don't care what they look/sound likes. as long as I know they will accept me. <p>
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby RagingLeprechuan » Thu Jul 24, 2003 11:38 pm

Its a disscusion, and I was just asking a question. Sorry for trying to get a feel on how I stand on such matters. <p>When we drink, we get drunk.
When we get drunk, we fall asleep.
When we fall asleep we commit no sin.
When we commit no sin, we go to heaven.
So, let's all get drunk, and go to heaven! - Old Irish Toast</p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Celeste of Elvenhame » Thu Jul 24, 2003 11:51 pm

Hmm, physical attributes have never been my forte.

Really I just like a guy who is clean cut....A nice smile is great as well. Other than that I don't really have a type.


Personality: Mmmm, now that is what gets my attention.
I like a positive guy. I do much better around postive people. If he can lift up my spirits when I am down, so much the better. I like a man with a sense of humor, who is caring and has a personality strong enough to match mine. Intelligence is important as well as maturity. He has to have similar religous values and respect for me.

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby pd Rydia » Fri Jul 25, 2003 12:01 am

If you want to know how you personally stand? Can't judge on the information you've given me. You sound physically attractive enough, but as I mentioned in my post, personality is everything. As it is, you come off as too concerned about relationships, and too obsessed about letting the world know your asian woman fetish. Relax more, and don't be so...overtly obsessive. <p>
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby RagingLeprechuan » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:02 am

Mkay, thanks. <p>When we drink, we get drunk.
When we get drunk, we fall asleep.
When we fall asleep we commit no sin.
When we commit no sin, we go to heaven.
So, let's all get drunk, and go to heaven! - Old Irish Toast</p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Lord McBastard » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:09 am

I like my men to be pretty. Like me. <p><div style="text-align:center">
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby PriamNevhausten » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:14 am

I like my men to be Brad Pitt. For reasons which shall remain undisclosed, at least in this subforum. <p><span style="font-size:xx-small;">"It's in the air, in the headlines in the newspapers, in the blurry images on television. It is a secret you have yet to grasp, although the first syllable has been spoken in a dream you cannot quite recall." --Unknown Armies</span></p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Endadelta » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:21 am

I like my men to not have greasy hair.

Seriously. Send a hand through that hair and it comes up gunky. Turn-off. <p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Wolfbelly » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:31 am

I like my men to be very, VERY experienced in oral sex. Otherwise, what the hell is the point of switching sides? <p>
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Kuro Kodomo » Fri Jul 25, 2003 1:52 am

OMG Wolfbelly!

Anyways...what I look for in a guy...well...first off, I prefer that he is no more than 3 years older and no more that 1 year younger...I have this tendency to treat younger guys...differently. Image Bad habit, slowly breaking, back on track, I like my guys to have alot of humor, semi built, but not overly pudgy. around my height, and he musn't pester me about sex, it gets old, oh, and he needs to be able to handle me hanging out with other guys. I'm the kinda girl that has a lot of guy friends...I still dunno why...and...Drugs are bad! It helps if he's into the same things I am. and he's got to like to cuddle Image ! <p>Who appointed you Jello sheriff of the house?-Mort Castle</p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby SALSAlys » Fri Jul 25, 2003 3:08 am

Cuddly = WOOT!

...and End has a point. O.o;; Greasy hair is just... BLEAH. I don't wanna have to wash my hand after touching it. >.< Especially as I like to fluff hair a lot.


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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby BrainWalker » Fri Jul 25, 2003 2:51 pm

I like my men like I like my coffee.

No, not strong and black. I can't stand coffee. <p><div style="text-align:center">Image</div></p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Rainbow Fright » Fri Jul 25, 2003 2:52 pm

If a guy's gonna be with me, he sure as hell better not be a dumbass. I'm completely intolerant of people like my sister's current boyfriend who's just a pretty face and nothing else. The guy's dumb as a post, overly patriotic, homophobic, xenophobic...the list and litany could go on and on. I want someone who can hold a conversation on my level, dammit. Gimme a good debate. A man who can convincingly argue with me about ancient civilizations is damn sexy in my book.

I do NOT like smokers/excessive drinkers. Cigarette smoke gives me one hell of a headache, and while I drink a little bit, I do NOT want to be seen with someone who'll get falling-down drunk. This is why my Irish relatives embarass me and I make their lives miserable at the annual family reunion. Oh yeah, and my sister's boyfriend's a drunk too. We all know how much I like HIM, right?

He'd better be able to respect my personal space. I am NOT his possession, and I like my alone time, thanks. On the same token, he'd better not expect me to be overly submissive. Lauren is not a submissive girl.

Love me, love my cats. You don't like them, there's the door. My kitties are my babies, so if you're not a cat lover, piss off.

He'd better not pressure me for sex either, unless he LIKES getting a face full of claw-rings. He'll get it when I'm good and willing, dammit. He must also be able to accept my shounen-ai bent, and my anime/video-game fixation. Not to mention the fact that I'm morbid as all get-out, and tend to blast J-Rock loudly all day, especially when I'm pissed.

Looks...well, I wouldn't *mind* him being cute, but like I said, I don't want just a pretty face and an empty head.

So yeah. This is why I'll never have anyone. <p><div style="text-align:center">"Hey mother look at me,
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As I'm steppin' into heaven"
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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby RagingLeprechuan » Fri Jul 25, 2003 3:10 pm

I wouldn't say that, in fact your demands are quite reasonable. And many of those things are what I would expect in a women. Trust me, the fact alone that you have a anime/video game interest would bring along several potentail mates. Its just up to you to find the elite within the mob.

And the whole drinking thing, I too share the drunken family reunion masacares, although I kid around about drinking alot, I've learned my lesson from the examples of my relatives. For I don't wish to turn out like them. And although drunk people are funny to laugh at, their not fun to try and open your self up to or hold an intelligent conversation with. <p>May the curse of Mary Malone and her nine blind illegitimate children chase you so far over the hills of Damnation that the Lord himself can't find you with a telescope. - Irish Curse</p>Edited by: [url=http://pub30.ezboard.com/brpgww60462.showUserPublicProfile?gid=ragingleprechuan>RagingLeprechuan</A]&nbsp; Image at: 7/25/03 3:17 pm

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby PriamNevhausten » Fri Jul 25, 2003 3:47 pm

All you men (myself included) are to shut the hell up, as this is a thread for the women to say things, not us. This is not a debate or a discussion; it is a survey.

Unless it is a debate or a discussion. In which case, carry on. <p><span style="font-size:xx-small;">"It's in the air, in the headlines in the newspapers, in the blurry images on television. It is a secret you have yet to grasp, although the first syllable has been spoken in a dream you cannot quite recall." --Unknown Armies</span></p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby BrainWalker » Fri Jul 25, 2003 8:15 pm

Well, this IS the discussion forum, after all. And given that RL is the one that posted it, and is doing most of the counterpoint discussion, I'd say it's fairly safe to assume that this is, in fact, a discussion.

Besides, the girls posted in the "question for the Guys" thread. So why can't we post here? <p><div style="text-align:center">Image</div></p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby SuperRube » Fri Jul 25, 2003 8:16 pm

Sexism, obviously. <p>

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby Animala » Fri Jul 25, 2003 8:21 pm

Things I like in a man:

1 brain
2 lungs
1 heart
2 kidneys
1 liver
1 stomach
1 dormant strep infection
1 doorknob swallowed as a child
1 appendix
1 gall blatter
0 moose

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Re: Since its only right

Unread postby SALSAlys » Fri Jul 25, 2003 8:39 pm

Heh. Also very good. We need all those vital organs. Although if he had a kidney surgery, I guess he can have just one.



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